First Time Dating Preparation Tips

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It’s amazing how often this step is overlooked. While appearance isn’t everything, cleaning yourself up before going out goes a long way. The saying goes – “You can’t change the genes in you, but you can change the jeans your in.” and it’s absolutely true. Wearing a nice clean shirt, some neat pressed pants, and an up-to-date pair of underwear makes the impression that you are able to take care of yourself and also reflects good hygiene. While this might seem like common knowledge, it’s overlooked often enough to earn it’s place on our dating tips list.

Keep busy before your date:
Idle minds have time to over-think and over-complicate the situation. Don’t dedicate the entire day to waiting for your date to happen, you’re a busy person with lots of things to do – and if you don’t have anything to do – find something! We’ve created a checklist of things you could be doing on our site. Your time is important, you’re important – which brings us to the next tip.

Never seem too available:
Desperation is the king of date killers. You need to keep the mindset that you are an important busy person that your date is lucky to know. While you can have a mutual respect for your date (even without knowing them intimately) you are taking time from your busy schedule to give her a chance. By always being available, never hanging up the phone first, or constantly calling your date– you’re almost guaranteeing you won’t have a second date.

Recharge your batteries:
Dating can be tiring, especially when managing multiple dates with different women. If you feel like taking a night off – a weekend off – a week off go ahead and do it. Your dates will understand that you’re busy or have personal matters to attend to and they will be there when you’re ready to share your time with them. If they request that you have a drink with them on Friday night, just let them know that you’d like to but can’t make it this Friday – it’s that simple. You’re not required to share with them why you can’t make it, but it’s suggested that you schedule another time you’re available to talk or go out.
By taking some time off you can be in top condition both mentally and physically.

Drop the comparisons between new and old dates:
Phrases like “Jennifer is cute, but not as cute as Sarah – the girl I met last week” are sabotaging your relationship with Jennifer. Compare dating to playing the lottery, the more you play – the better your chances of winning. Whether you define winning as forming a long and exclusive relationship or just getting your date into bed you have a much better chance if you play the odds. If your date is attractive and intelligent enough to date in the first place, she’s already met your qualifications – why further limit your options?

Be prepared for a fresh take on dating:
Let’s face it, technology plays a big part in our lives whether you notice it or not. If you’ve been out of the dating loop for several years or haven’t really ever been in the loop you need to learn to use technology to your advantage in the world of dating. Fortunately we’re not just talking about microwave ovens and longer lasting light bulbs here – we’re talking about communication mediums. Text messages, emails, instant messages – these are all forms of communication that modern people use and can use for dating. While the traditional “Hey baby, what’s your number?” is still alive and kicking, it’s often easier to get positive response if you’re asking for something less personal such as an email or IM name. You may find that fairly often they write down their phone number just in case you can’t get in touch with them on line anyway.    Aside from communication methods, the Internet provides for an interesting new medium of meeting people. The “Online Dating Craze” has started to become acceptable and extremely effective in matching hot dates.

Types of Kisses

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Your relationship can increase to the next stage if you kiss with passionate desire. Below are some of the spiciest kissing methods which can be a boom to your relationship. So find the types of kisses your partner might like and start practicing.

• The polished kiss – based on the kiss of green woodpecker but with more hesitation in it: if I to embrace on the cheek “given” or should I just make a noise of low light of the kiss beside the ear?
• The kiss of the beginner- In this sexy kiss, you gently make your brush of lips against her lips. You can also whirl your lips slowly around his lips. To slacken, let go to allow your lips to wander above and around its extase pure of mouth….
• The opened eyes kiss – those people are always on a “watch”. Got to be in control. Connected to reality. Can not and would not let this experience swap them away. There is no fear on “crashing down” as they never left the ground. Those people and the suspicious, careful controlled type.
• The French kiss – passion. Lasts for ever. Involves all parts of the mouth and excites the rest of the body. The point of this kiss is a “meeting” between the two tongues. The French kiss is a kind of “trespassing” to one’s privacy and can sometimes stimulate a rejection especially if the partner is the shy/afraid/close type.

• The passage kiss-in love It is the manner that you can mix the eroticism in food and vice versa. You pass something in a sensual way to your in love-like a chocolate, an ice, a fruit etc You must gently hold it between your lips and make its mouth touch the piece which you have. Then with your language, to gently push the article in its mouth.
• Eastern Swirl and Poke Kiss-You allow your lips to swirl and poke around the body of your woman.
• The overall kiss – Starts with the mouth, goes to the cheeks, the nose, the forehead and sometimes further.
• The vacuum kiss - A passion kiss that might hurt. It is a kiss the kind of “arguing” with the partner – my place or yours? It is like the kisser is trying to swallow the partner – not so much for love as for lust.
• Lush Lap Kiss-Your lips dangerously pass very close to close to the skin of your in love. After separation of your lips, you must use a company, a slow covering of the language tightened with its flesh or her lips. This kiss puts to you in the order and gives the sexy vibes to the lady who wants that its man takes the head.
• The woodpecker kiss – The name says it all. Very economic, quick and sometimes even irritating.

How Women Test Men And Why

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What I am thinking about Women?

In my opinion, most women, especially the ‘hotties’,
have gone through a learning curve here in our western culture that has on average given them a sort of ‘predictable psychological makeup’. Now, there are differences between these women… some are smart, some are not… some are tall, some are short… some are cerebral, some are physical… etc. etc. etc… but there are things that most of them have in common. I’ve made a study of these things… because this is what interests me.

Why Women Test Men

But, They are not just Hotties…

At some point in their lives, hotties began to be treated differently because they were attractive. I mentioned the social psychology concept earlier called ‘The Halo Effect’. Simply stated, attractive people are assumed to be smarter, more honest, more trustworthy, etc. than others. The fact that people do whatever the hottie wants begins to blur their sense of reality and makes them believe that they can have whatever they want whenever they want it… AND THAT’S JUST THE WAY LIFE IS. (This applies in general.)
You’ll notice that many super-hotties will throw tantrums if they don’t like what’s going on or aren’t getting their way… this is a sure sign that they are not living in the same reality as most people… when they don’t get what they want, they get upset because this has worked since they were little… Now, on a subconscious level, I’ve noticed that most hot women realize that they are being ridiculous when they act like bitches, throw tantrums, etc. but it doesn’t really matter because it still WORKS for them when they want what they want… are you with me? Underneath all of this behavior, they are still FEMALE and they are looking for what other females are also looking for…

What are women looking for?

Well, for the record, I have no idea. After 30 years of studying people, Freud said that there was one question that he didn’t have the answer to… “What do women want?”
Nice. BUT, here’s my take on it: First and foremost, they want a man who is in CONTROL (of the situation, himself, his emotions, other people, her… control of the entire reality that they share). Let me ask you, if you were a woman who wanted to test a man to see if he will stay in control, how would you do it? Would you ask the man, “If I get out of hand, will you spank me and put me in my place?”

NO WAY!!!

So they test us by CHALLENGING us to see if we’ll stay in control. The reason I do all of this “Never give a woman a direct answer… unless it’s NO… Never give a woman exactly what she wants…” etc. is, ironically, to give her what she REALLY wants… a man who’s in control.

Women want a challenge. Think romance novel themes… if you don’t know what I’m talking about, sit yourself down for a week and read Dangerous Men and Adventurous Women by Jayne Krentz… How to Succeed With Women By Being A Jerk by F.J. Shark… Endless Rapture by Helen Hazen… and Bad Boys by Margie Palatini… and think about it.

Most of the time, I’m enjoying myself, talking about whatever comes up, making jokes, and generally behaving like a normal person. But, like anything else, if these techniques are used too much, they become worthless… so they must be used with precision and at the right moments. What’s interesting is that because I usually (but not always) do these teasing and seemingly controlling things with a bit of a dry humor spin, I believe that the woman who I’m with has an internal response like, “Wow, this guy is cocky, but I can’t tell if he’s serious or not… and I want to find out… but either way, he’s funny and he’s staying interested in me and not being flagrantly abusive… so he must be interested at SOME level…”

The key is to WATCH FOR THE TESTS and be ready when they come.

Most guys screw up when a woman acts bratty… or when a woman gets upset, they say, “Oh, I’m sorry” and mess it up. Or they act nervous, etc. You have to stay in control… If a woman starts getting angry, instead of getting nervous say, “Oh, poor baby is throwing a tantrum… So what. You’ve been doing the same thing since you were 2, and you didn’t get your way.” SPANK!

Another realization I’ve had is that most women are totally intrigued by men who seem uninterested and crass… it’s almost like they say to themselves, “Wow, this guy seems kind of cocky… and I can’t believe that he’s not interested in having sex with me like all the other dumb pussies that I meet… He’s funny and smart… I wonder if I can get him interested in me… and when I do, I’ll just dump him like the other losers… but this might be fun…”Get it?

But if you are going to act this way, you have to keep it up until the end… and I mean to the end. I’m going to address the ‘treating women well’ issue again. I treat women very well… they always tell me that they’ve never met a man who treats them so well, etc.

How can this be when I seem like such a ball buster? Well, it’s simple really… I do nice things for them ON MY OWN TERMS. I will surprise them with a thoughtful email or a card… or I might give them a nice massage… I open doors and walk on the outside of the curb… But part of most women’s romantic fantasy (in my opinion) is the man taking control of the situation and doing things on HIS terms. Try it for yourself… next time you’re going to meet a woman, tell her what to wear… choose the food and tell her to trust you… if she asks for a kiss, say, “No”… but kiss her later when YOU feel like it… if you know that she likes chocolate, and she asks for some… don’t give it to her… but surprise her with some next time …get it?

Here are a couple of rules of thumb that I suggest:

1. Never give a woman a direct answer… unless the answer is NO. This is a big one. If she says, “Can we sit here?” I say, “No, let’s sit in this one next to it.”…or if she says, “How do you like my dress?” I say, “Well, I think that I like it… just give me a few minutes to see it on you.”… or if she says, “Call me tomorrow.” I say, “No. You call me tomorrow… cummon, you want me and you know it.”

2. If she complains about you or doesn’t like something, turn it up a notch and do it more. If she says to me, “I don’t really like it when you say that.”, I say, “Well then you might want to leave, because I say it a lot.”

3. Women are CONSTANTLY testing to see if they can get you to comply with them. As soon as you do, they hit the road (or marry you). This idea took me years to see and understand, but the fact is that when you’re dealing with a powerful, hot woman she will do all different kinds of things that make no sense at all logically… but all the sense in the world when you understand her mindset. Hot women can have anything they want. What they want is a challenge… something that keeps their interest. If a woman can have anything she wants anytime she wants it, then WHY THE HELL DO GUYS THINK THAT THEY’RE GOING TO BE INTERESTING BY DOING THE SAME THING THAT EVERY OTHER GUY HAS DONE? Duh.

4. Hey, I used to think this way… but then I got a clue. Now, I pay very careful attention and never let her have what she wants. If she says, “Kiss me.” I say, “No.” If she says, “Come over to my house.” I say, “I’m busy right now, I’ll come over later.” If she says, “I want you so bad, please make love to me.” I say, “Well, I think that you need to wait a little longer. And besides, I’m not finished kissing you.” Get it? I NEVER give a woman exactly what she asks for… EVER!Always send mixed signals. Tell her I want to be friends and kiss her. Tell her what she just did was unacceptable and then go kiss her. Spank her if she does something nice. Also, respond differently to the same thing. For example, one time if she comes over and sits on my lap, I kiss her. Another time I push her off… get it? Never be predictable… NEVER.

For the record, when I say, “always” and “never”, I don’t really mean “ALWAYS 100% WITHOUT EXCEPTION EVER.” I mean that you should do these as much as you possibly can, because you really can’t overdo any of them as long as you stay cocky and funny while you’re doing them.

The test is always, “Is she laughing, smiling, having fun most of the time?” If so, you can’t overdo these four rules.

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How to start talking with a Girl?

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This is a kick ass self motivative post, which will increase your self confidence 200% more at end of reading.

Everyone has  a dream superhero character about themselves.

For me, I think myself as a “Steve Stiffler”  & sometimes “Bad Boy”. I  approach girls and flirt with them. I usually speak like a very nice guy. Girls like  a guy, Who speak polite and little funny. You dont want to be a “Ace Ventura” to make fun. Just try with what is originally coming for you.

Who are you actually?

• Sensitive?
• Emotional?
• Predictable?
• Serious Guy?

Emm… Yes they are good faces. I dont want you to hide your originality. I just want you to find the coolest guy inside you. Take him out and send him infront of girls.

Do not fake yourself. Do what comes naturally for you. Girls dont want you to dance, sing, fight or have a six pack. All they are expecting from a guy is, A smile with confidence & frank words with little truth.

Guy infront of you:

Sometimes you get jealous about some guy, He usually be speaking with more than 2 girls at same time. Girls love him and always flirt with him. He date with hot and cute girls all the time.

Your Superhero:

Think yourself as a superhero. Whom it would be?  JamesBond, Will Smith, Serminator, Wolverine, Batman, Superman, Captain America …

Well, Practically we can not fly and sleep with all women.

Actually you do not need to be a superhero to get a girl friend. Actually thinking yourself as a superhero is a kind of lame thing.

Lets figure out the coolest guy inside you.

Dress:
Make your own style or atleast stick with one dressing style. I used to wear lots of cargo shirts and cotton pants.

Face:
Let other know that, You can smile.

Eyes:
Do not keep it like someone who escaped from prison.

Just start looking into her eyes and say “Hi.. How are you doing?” with a little smile.

Also remember that, Girls are also most like you, They are also interested to flirt and share with opposite sex.