First Time Dating Preparation Tips

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It’s amazing how often this step is overlooked. While appearance isn’t everything, cleaning yourself up before going out goes a long way. The saying goes – “You can’t change the genes in you, but you can change the jeans your in.” and it’s absolutely true. Wearing a nice clean shirt, some neat pressed pants, and an up-to-date pair of underwear makes the impression that you are able to take care of yourself and also reflects good hygiene. While this might seem like common knowledge, it’s overlooked often enough to earn it’s place on our dating tips list.

Keep busy before your date:
Idle minds have time to over-think and over-complicate the situation. Don’t dedicate the entire day to waiting for your date to happen, you’re a busy person with lots of things to do – and if you don’t have anything to do – find something! We’ve created a checklist of things you could be doing on our site. Your time is important, you’re important – which brings us to the next tip.

Never seem too available:
Desperation is the king of date killers. You need to keep the mindset that you are an important busy person that your date is lucky to know. While you can have a mutual respect for your date (even without knowing them intimately) you are taking time from your busy schedule to give her a chance. By always being available, never hanging up the phone first, or constantly calling your date– you’re almost guaranteeing you won’t have a second date.

Recharge your batteries:
Dating can be tiring, especially when managing multiple dates with different women. If you feel like taking a night off – a weekend off – a week off go ahead and do it. Your dates will understand that you’re busy or have personal matters to attend to and they will be there when you’re ready to share your time with them. If they request that you have a drink with them on Friday night, just let them know that you’d like to but can’t make it this Friday – it’s that simple. You’re not required to share with them why you can’t make it, but it’s suggested that you schedule another time you’re available to talk or go out.
By taking some time off you can be in top condition both mentally and physically.

Drop the comparisons between new and old dates:
Phrases like “Jennifer is cute, but not as cute as Sarah – the girl I met last week” are sabotaging your relationship with Jennifer. Compare dating to playing the lottery, the more you play – the better your chances of winning. Whether you define winning as forming a long and exclusive relationship or just getting your date into bed you have a much better chance if you play the odds. If your date is attractive and intelligent enough to date in the first place, she’s already met your qualifications – why further limit your options?

Be prepared for a fresh take on dating:
Let’s face it, technology plays a big part in our lives whether you notice it or not. If you’ve been out of the dating loop for several years or haven’t really ever been in the loop you need to learn to use technology to your advantage in the world of dating. Fortunately we’re not just talking about microwave ovens and longer lasting light bulbs here – we’re talking about communication mediums. Text messages, emails, instant messages – these are all forms of communication that modern people use and can use for dating. While the traditional “Hey baby, what’s your number?” is still alive and kicking, it’s often easier to get positive response if you’re asking for something less personal such as an email or IM name. You may find that fairly often they write down their phone number just in case you can’t get in touch with them on line anyway.    Aside from communication methods, the Internet provides for an interesting new medium of meeting people. The “Online Dating Craze” has started to become acceptable and extremely effective in matching hot dates.

Types of Kisses

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Your relationship can increase to the next stage if you kiss with passionate desire. Below are some of the spiciest kissing methods which can be a boom to your relationship. So find the types of kisses your partner might like and start practicing.

• The polished kiss – based on the kiss of green woodpecker but with more hesitation in it: if I to embrace on the cheek “given” or should I just make a noise of low light of the kiss beside the ear?
• The kiss of the beginner- In this sexy kiss, you gently make your brush of lips against her lips. You can also whirl your lips slowly around his lips. To slacken, let go to allow your lips to wander above and around its extase pure of mouth….
• The opened eyes kiss – those people are always on a “watch”. Got to be in control. Connected to reality. Can not and would not let this experience swap them away. There is no fear on “crashing down” as they never left the ground. Those people and the suspicious, careful controlled type.
• The French kiss – passion. Lasts for ever. Involves all parts of the mouth and excites the rest of the body. The point of this kiss is a “meeting” between the two tongues. The French kiss is a kind of “trespassing” to one’s privacy and can sometimes stimulate a rejection especially if the partner is the shy/afraid/close type.

• The passage kiss-in love It is the manner that you can mix the eroticism in food and vice versa. You pass something in a sensual way to your in love-like a chocolate, an ice, a fruit etc You must gently hold it between your lips and make its mouth touch the piece which you have. Then with your language, to gently push the article in its mouth.
• Eastern Swirl and Poke Kiss-You allow your lips to swirl and poke around the body of your woman.
• The overall kiss – Starts with the mouth, goes to the cheeks, the nose, the forehead and sometimes further.
• The vacuum kiss - A passion kiss that might hurt. It is a kiss the kind of “arguing” with the partner – my place or yours? It is like the kisser is trying to swallow the partner – not so much for love as for lust.
• Lush Lap Kiss-Your lips dangerously pass very close to close to the skin of your in love. After separation of your lips, you must use a company, a slow covering of the language tightened with its flesh or her lips. This kiss puts to you in the order and gives the sexy vibes to the lady who wants that its man takes the head.
• The woodpecker kiss – The name says it all. Very economic, quick and sometimes even irritating.

How Women Test Men And Why

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Why women have to test men?

Simple, They want to know how you react, express, control & manage a situation. Most women strongly believes that guys always have a second thought about everything (Yes we do!). But, We fake few of our original characters and keeps our face smiling even she wastes hours of time in make-ups.

They ask series of questions like “How do you like my dress?”

“How do I look today?”

“Am I looking fat?”

Test Situation #1

She says : “Oh., My grand ma got sick. Will you come at evening and drop me in her place? I want to take care of her today!”

Kart’s Insight: It is not about you to pickup and drop her in grand ma’s place. It is really about, If you concern about her family members or not.

How to Pass?:  Buy some fruits & something that may be useful for her grandma.

Test Situation #2

She says: “You know? This is the same place that John(her ex) was proposed me”

Kart’s Insight: She may be testing you that, If you are in doubt with her and her ex. Or, She may just want to see your facial expression.

How to Pass?: You need be get serious instantly & move away from that place. I am sure, She will come to you and ask sorry.

Test Situation #3

She says: Am I looking fat?

Kart’s Insight: She wants to know if you concern about her slightly “Over Weighted” body or not?  She may be trying to workout

How to Pass?: “Yes” is the truth. She really want an answer “No” from you. But you have to say Yes + No like below.,  “I think your workouts are making you slim & sexy.. If you keep doing those workouts then you will become a model within a month” .. This is absolutely a positive and encouraging answer.

Post your test situations and her expressions. I will help you to figure out

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How to start talking with a Girl?

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This is a kick ass self motivative post, which will increase your self confidence 200% more at end of reading.

Everyone has  a dream superhero character about themselves.

For me, I think myself as a “Steve Stiffler”  & sometimes “Bad Boy”. I  approach girls and flirt with them. I usually speak like a very nice guy. Girls like  a guy, Who speak polite and little funny. You dont want to be a “Ace Ventura” to make fun. Just try with what is originally coming for you.

Who are you actually?

• Sensitive?
• Emotional?
• Predictable?
• Serious Guy?

Emm… Yes they are good faces. I dont want you to hide your originality. I just want you to find the coolest guy inside you. Take him out and send him infront of girls.

Do not fake yourself. Do what comes naturally for you. Girls dont want you to dance, sing, fight or have a six pack. All they are expecting from a guy is, A smile with confidence & frank words with little truth.

Guy infront of you:

Sometimes you get jealous about some guy, He usually be speaking with more than 2 girls at same time. Girls love him and always flirt with him. He date with hot and cute girls all the time.

Your Superhero:

Think yourself as a superhero. Whom it would be?  JamesBond, Will Smith, Serminator, Wolverine, Batman, Superman, Captain America …

Well, Practically we can not fly and sleep with all women.

Actually you do not need to be a superhero to get a girl friend. Actually thinking yourself as a superhero is a kind of lame thing.

Lets figure out the coolest guy inside you.

Dress:
Make your own style or atleast stick with one dressing style. I used to wear lots of cargo shirts and cotton pants.

Face:
Let other know that, You can smile.

Eyes:
Do not keep it like someone who escaped from prison.

Just start looking into her eyes and say “Hi.. How are you doing?” with a little smile.

Also remember that, Girls are also most like you, They are also interested to flirt and share with opposite sex.