How to get a girl you like most?

So, You like to get a girl, who is your class mate, colleague, girl at next door, a party chick or some one? You are a shy guy to start with girls? Keep this in your mind always “Girls aren’t aliens to fear about”. Kick your foolish shyness and fear at first.

Be a Man:
Do not degrade yourself with your inferior things. Look at the couples you see at beach, park & every where else.. If he can get a girl then why not you?

First Meet/Date/Conversation?
Buddy, You need to make her get relaxed. So, Do not stand in front of her like an escaped prisoner with rolling eyes. First relax yourself and understand the environment then start, Just say good day wishes, smile and move forward the conversation with interesting topics. There is a magic lie which always attracts a girl. Tell her that “You looks really nice. This dress perfectly suits you” end this line with a nice smile. This is your first trap.

What is your personality?
Do you able to describe about yourself with couple of lines? Do not try to makeup some fake characters into your personality. Just “Be Yourself”

Are you a Jerk or Nice guy?
Most of the girls feel nice guys are such boring personalities. Don’t be a 100% funny guy always. It will create a joker impression about you instead of attractiveness.

Your conversations with a girl:
when a girl talk about something she like, an incident, a sad moment, her last summer trip, her pets or anything else, You need to follow “Shut Up and Listen” rule. Stop commenting, Stop giving suggestions, Stop giving advices, Stop arguments when she talk. Just shut up your bad mouth and listen what she says. She don’t need a world’s greatest idea from you when she talk something emotional. All she need is a caring person who respects what she is saying.

Be REAL:
Help an old lady cross the street. Be a role model for kids to look up to. Be kind to animals. Being considerate to others, no matter the age, gender, or species, is sure to make any girl’s heart melt.

Be Talkative:
Girls like such an interesting guys who talk funny, naughty (sometimes), caring & polite. Just be social.

Know more about her:
You have to know about her most happiest/sad moments. Close friends, Family, Co-Workers, Her favorite food, her hobbies. Do not ask all of these to her like a survey guy. Just know it in different moments.

Your Thoughts:
If she say “Eminem is the only one who can rap very well. all others are pure crap!” Don’t say “yes yes.. emimen is BEST.. I like him”. Just say what you think really in polite way, This would be better, “Yes Eminem is nice.. But 50cent & Dr.Dre too perform nice, You must listen <50-C song name> <Dre song name> <eminem song name> look how great all are they.. these three guys rap nice.”.

How to be an interested guy?
If she like something, then ask about her thoughts & comments about it. Let her to talk much about her favorite things. Do not let it to be a questioner session.

Learn to play at least a single musical instrument,
Learn to dance,
Have some interesting hobbies like boat riding, rock climbing,

Do not Hurt or Kid her friends:
Do not try lame jokes to kid her friends. As you are a new person to her, You need to be friendly to all of her friends too.

TRUST Yourself

First of all trust yourself, You can do it even millions of successful guys do. You lose nothing if she denies you. Just have a try learn the lesson “How to attract”.

Say “Yes”

If still you need some tips, Do not hesitate to post a comment with your situation.

If you are a new visitor for my blog and trying to figure out how to impress your girl and express your love, Then read the entire page.  “Advance Congratulations!” – Kart.

#8. Forget the Valentine’s Day Dress Color Code

Choose your favorite dress with neat pair of shoes. My personal idea is, Get a custom printed t-shirt along with her photo/name/initial just on your left. Just wear this t-shirt and show it to her. I bet she will surly like it   Make sure, You are proposing only one girl. Otherwise you need to walk like a balloon.

#7. Choose The Best Place

Try a different place other than Theater & Restaurant.  I am suggesting a water theme park, zoo, rock climbing, museum (sounds odd, but it works) , water falls , your home or somewhere.

But, Make sure you both are comfortable there.  So, Always try to avoid places that may have protesters or streakers.

#6. Dont Get Tensed

First of all, You are not going to do a heart transfer operation for a 3-year old child.  You are just going to express your love. Do not go and stand like a escaped prisoner with rolling eyes. It will really look awkward. You need to be bold(dont be rude) & take control of the situation and assure that she is completely comfortable with you.

#5. Get a Lovable Gift

It is really not about size & cost.  A simple greeting card custom printed with her birthday photo, graduation photo, performance photo (if she is a singer, dancer, athlet…).  You must make sure that is specially made for her, not just from a row or ready made shop.

#4.  Do not send a love letter template please.

Do not just simply copy paste someone else’s words to your most lovable girl.   Try your own words, own incidents, moments & something that really came in your mind.

#3.  Where is your smiling face?

Smiling face is the symbol of “Welcoming & Fun liking” character. Every girl likes it.  Just go and smile at her and keep smiling for his dumb jokes as well.

#2.  Be Yourself

You are the only one who knows completely about you. Do not fake your character for one day.  If she got impressed for your over exposed & non really existing character. Then your relationship may end up very soon. So, Remember the word “Be Yourself”.  Do not wear a monkey mask, Because she likes monkeys very much. Let her to get some other monkey.

#1. Do not say “I Love You, Will You Love Me”?

Love is not an emotion, It is a feeling. An emotion can be replied by one. But feelings must be felt. So, If you are in a deep love and searching a best way to express your love, Then try my personal idea

Just sit infront of her and say with fully loaded feeling,

“I met a girl before 2 months, She became so friendly with me. She know many things about me. I know something about her.  I think she like few of my characters. But, I like most of her characters.

I feel like, I am in heaven when ever i see her eyes. I think she is the best for rest of my life

My heart says, I can not live without {Her Name here}. Tell me what should I tell to my heart? ”

Well, Thats my way! If you have some other idea then just try it out.

And ” Advance Congratulations Bro!”

This is a kick ass self motivative post, which will increase your self confidence 200% more at end of reading.

Everyone has  a dream superhero character about themselves.

For me, I think myself as a “Steve Stiffler”  & sometimes “Bad Boy”. I  approach girls and flirt with them. I usually speak like a very nice guy. Girls like  a guy, Who speak polite and little funny. You dont want to be a “Ace Ventura” to make fun. Just try with what is originally coming for you.

Who are you actually?

• Sensitive?
• Emotional?
• Predictable?
• Serious Guy?

Emm… Yes they are good faces. I dont want you to hide your originality. I just want you to find the coolest guy inside you. Take him out and send him infront of girls.

Do not fake yourself. Do what comes naturally for you. Girls dont want you to dance, sing, fight or have a six pack. All they are expecting from a guy is, A smile with confidence & frank words with little truth.

Guy infront of you:

Sometimes you get jealous about some guy, He usually be speaking with more than 2 girls at same time. Girls love him and always flirt with him. He date with hot and cute girls all the time.

Your Superhero:

Think yourself as a superhero. Whom it would be?  JamesBond, Will Smith, Serminator, Wolverine, Batman, Superman, Captain America …

Well, Practically we can not fly and sleep with all women.

Actually you do not need to be a superhero to get a girl friend. Actually thinking yourself as a superhero is a kind of lame thing.

Lets figure out the coolest guy inside you.

Dress:
Make your own style or atleast stick with one dressing style. I used to wear lots of cargo shirts and cotton pants.

Face:
Let other know that, You can smile.

Eyes:
Do not keep it like someone who escaped from prison.

Just start looking into her eyes and say “Hi.. How are you doing?” with a little smile.

Also remember that, Girls are also most like you, They are also interested to flirt and share with opposite sex.