How to get a girl you like most?

So, You like to get a girl, who is your class mate, colleague, girl at next door, a party chick or some one? You are a shy guy to start with girls? Keep this in your mind always “Girls aren’t aliens to fear about”. Kick your foolish shyness and fear at first.

Be a Man:
Do not degrade yourself with your inferior things. Look at the couples you see at beach, park & every where else.. If he can get a girl then why not you?

First Meet/Date/Conversation?
Buddy, You need to make her get relaxed. So, Do not stand in front of her like an escaped prisoner with rolling eyes. First relax yourself and understand the environment then start, Just say good day wishes, smile and move forward the conversation with interesting topics. There is a magic lie which always attracts a girl. Tell her that “You looks really nice. This dress perfectly suits you” end this line with a nice smile. This is your first trap.

What is your personality?
Do you able to describe about yourself with couple of lines? Do not try to makeup some fake characters into your personality. Just “Be Yourself”

Are you a Jerk or Nice guy?
Most of the girls feel nice guys are such boring personalities. Don’t be a 100% funny guy always. It will create a joker impression about you instead of attractiveness.

Your conversations with a girl:
when a girl talk about something she like, an incident, a sad moment, her last summer trip, her pets or anything else, You need to follow “Shut Up and Listen” rule. Stop commenting, Stop giving suggestions, Stop giving advices, Stop arguments when she talk. Just shut up your bad mouth and listen what she says. She don’t need a world’s greatest idea from you when she talk something emotional. All she need is a caring person who respects what she is saying.

Be REAL:
Help an old lady cross the street. Be a role model for kids to look up to. Be kind to animals. Being considerate to others, no matter the age, gender, or species, is sure to make any girl’s heart melt.

Be Talkative:
Girls like such an interesting guys who talk funny, naughty (sometimes), caring & polite. Just be social.

Know more about her:
You have to know about her most happiest/sad moments. Close friends, Family, Co-Workers, Her favorite food, her hobbies. Do not ask all of these to her like a survey guy. Just know it in different moments.

Your Thoughts:
If she say “Eminem is the only one who can rap very well. all others are pure crap!” Don’t say “yes yes.. emimen is BEST.. I like him”. Just say what you think really in polite way, This would be better, “Yes Eminem is nice.. But 50cent & Dr.Dre too perform nice, You must listen <50-C song name> <Dre song name> <eminem song name> look how great all are they.. these three guys rap nice.”.

How to be an interested guy?
If she like something, then ask about her thoughts & comments about it. Let her to talk much about her favorite things. Do not let it to be a questioner session.

Learn to play at least a single musical instrument,
Learn to dance,
Have some interesting hobbies like boat riding, rock climbing,

Do not Hurt or Kid her friends:
Do not try lame jokes to kid her friends. As you are a new person to her, You need to be friendly to all of her friends too.

TRUST Yourself

First of all trust yourself, You can do it even millions of successful guys do. You lose nothing if she denies you. Just have a try learn the lesson “How to attract”.

Say “Yes”

If still you need some tips, Do not hesitate to post a comment with your situation.

If you are a new visitor for my blog and trying to figure out how to impress your girl and express your love, Then read the entire page.  “Advance Congratulations!” – Kart.

#8. Forget the Valentine’s Day Dress Color Code

Choose your favorite dress with neat pair of shoes. My personal idea is, Get a custom printed t-shirt along with her photo/name/initial just on your left. Just wear this t-shirt and show it to her. I bet she will surly like it   Make sure, You are proposing only one girl. Otherwise you need to walk like a balloon.

#7. Choose The Best Place

Try a different place other than Theater & Restaurant.  I am suggesting a water theme park, zoo, rock climbing, museum (sounds odd, but it works) , water falls , your home or somewhere.

But, Make sure you both are comfortable there.  So, Always try to avoid places that may have protesters or streakers.

#6. Dont Get Tensed

First of all, You are not going to do a heart transfer operation for a 3-year old child.  You are just going to express your love. Do not go and stand like a escaped prisoner with rolling eyes. It will really look awkward. You need to be bold(dont be rude) & take control of the situation and assure that she is completely comfortable with you.

#5. Get a Lovable Gift

It is really not about size & cost.  A simple greeting card custom printed with her birthday photo, graduation photo, performance photo (if she is a singer, dancer, athlet…).  You must make sure that is specially made for her, not just from a row or ready made shop.

#4.  Do not send a love letter template please.

Do not just simply copy paste someone else’s words to your most lovable girl.   Try your own words, own incidents, moments & something that really came in your mind.

#3.  Where is your smiling face?

Smiling face is the symbol of “Welcoming & Fun liking” character. Every girl likes it.  Just go and smile at her and keep smiling for his dumb jokes as well.

#2.  Be Yourself

You are the only one who knows completely about you. Do not fake your character for one day.  If she got impressed for your over exposed & non really existing character. Then your relationship may end up very soon. So, Remember the word “Be Yourself”.  Do not wear a monkey mask, Because she likes monkeys very much. Let her to get some other monkey.

#1. Do not say “I Love You, Will You Love Me”?

Love is not an emotion, It is a feeling. An emotion can be replied by one. But feelings must be felt. So, If you are in a deep love and searching a best way to express your love, Then try my personal idea

Just sit infront of her and say with fully loaded feeling,

“I met a girl before 2 months, She became so friendly with me. She know many things about me. I know something about her.  I think she like few of my characters. But, I like most of her characters.

I feel like, I am in heaven when ever i see her eyes. I think she is the best for rest of my life

My heart says, I can not live without {Her Name here}. Tell me what should I tell to my heart? ”

Well, Thats my way! If you have some other idea then just try it out.

And ” Advance Congratulations Bro!”

It’s amazing how often this step is overlooked. While appearance isn’t everything, cleaning yourself up before going out goes a long way. The saying goes – “You can’t change the genes in you, but you can change the jeans your in.” and it’s absolutely true. Wearing a nice clean shirt, some neat pressed pants, and an up-to-date pair of underwear makes the impression that you are able to take care of yourself and also reflects good hygiene. While this might seem like common knowledge, it’s overlooked often enough to earn it’s place on our dating tips list.

Keep busy before your date:
Idle minds have time to over-think and over-complicate the situation. Don’t dedicate the entire day to waiting for your date to happen, you’re a busy person with lots of things to do – and if you don’t have anything to do – find something! We’ve created a checklist of things you could be doing on our site. Your time is important, you’re important – which brings us to the next tip.

Never seem too available:
Desperation is the king of date killers. You need to keep the mindset that you are an important busy person that your date is lucky to know. While you can have a mutual respect for your date (even without knowing them intimately) you are taking time from your busy schedule to give her a chance. By always being available, never hanging up the phone first, or constantly calling your date– you’re almost guaranteeing you won’t have a second date.

Recharge your batteries:
Dating can be tiring, especially when managing multiple dates with different women. If you feel like taking a night off – a weekend off – a week off go ahead and do it. Your dates will understand that you’re busy or have personal matters to attend to and they will be there when you’re ready to share your time with them. If they request that you have a drink with them on Friday night, just let them know that you’d like to but can’t make it this Friday – it’s that simple. You’re not required to share with them why you can’t make it, but it’s suggested that you schedule another time you’re available to talk or go out.
By taking some time off you can be in top condition both mentally and physically.

Drop the comparisons between new and old dates:
Phrases like “Jennifer is cute, but not as cute as Sarah – the girl I met last week” are sabotaging your relationship with Jennifer. Compare dating to playing the lottery, the more you play – the better your chances of winning. Whether you define winning as forming a long and exclusive relationship or just getting your date into bed you have a much better chance if you play the odds. If your date is attractive and intelligent enough to date in the first place, she’s already met your qualifications – why further limit your options?

Be prepared for a fresh take on dating:
Let’s face it, technology plays a big part in our lives whether you notice it or not. If you’ve been out of the dating loop for several years or haven’t really ever been in the loop you need to learn to use technology to your advantage in the world of dating. Fortunately we’re not just talking about microwave ovens and longer lasting light bulbs here – we’re talking about communication mediums. Text messages, emails, instant messages – these are all forms of communication that modern people use and can use for dating. While the traditional “Hey baby, what’s your number?” is still alive and kicking, it’s often easier to get positive response if you’re asking for something less personal such as an email or IM name. You may find that fairly often they write down their phone number just in case you can’t get in touch with them on line anyway.    Aside from communication methods, the Internet provides for an interesting new medium of meeting people. The “Online Dating Craze” has started to become acceptable and extremely effective in matching hot dates.

Your relationship can increase to the next stage if you kiss with passionate desire. Below are some of the spiciest kissing methods which can be a boom to your relationship. So find the types of kisses your partner might like and start practicing.

• The polished kiss – based on the kiss of green woodpecker but with more hesitation in it: if I to embrace on the cheek “given” or should I just make a noise of low light of the kiss beside the ear?
• The kiss of the beginner- In this sexy kiss, you gently make your brush of lips against her lips. You can also whirl your lips slowly around his lips. To slacken, let go to allow your lips to wander above and around its extase pure of mouth….
• The opened eyes kiss – those people are always on a “watch”. Got to be in control. Connected to reality. Can not and would not let this experience swap them away. There is no fear on “crashing down” as they never left the ground. Those people and the suspicious, careful controlled type.
• The French kiss – passion. Lasts for ever. Involves all parts of the mouth and excites the rest of the body. The point of this kiss is a “meeting” between the two tongues. The French kiss is a kind of “trespassing” to one’s privacy and can sometimes stimulate a rejection especially if the partner is the shy/afraid/close type.

• The passage kiss-in love It is the manner that you can mix the eroticism in food and vice versa. You pass something in a sensual way to your in love-like a chocolate, an ice, a fruit etc You must gently hold it between your lips and make its mouth touch the piece which you have. Then with your language, to gently push the article in its mouth.
• Eastern Swirl and Poke Kiss-You allow your lips to swirl and poke around the body of your woman.
• The overall kiss – Starts with the mouth, goes to the cheeks, the nose, the forehead and sometimes further.
• The vacuum kiss - A passion kiss that might hurt. It is a kiss the kind of “arguing” with the partner – my place or yours? It is like the kisser is trying to swallow the partner – not so much for love as for lust.
• Lush Lap Kiss-Your lips dangerously pass very close to close to the skin of your in love. After separation of your lips, you must use a company, a slow covering of the language tightened with its flesh or her lips. This kiss puts to you in the order and gives the sexy vibes to the lady who wants that its man takes the head.
• The woodpecker kiss – The name says it all. Very economic, quick and sometimes even irritating.

Why women have to test men?

Simple, They want to know how you react, express, control & manage a situation. Most women strongly believes that guys always have a second thought about everything (Yes we do!). But, We fake few of our original characters and keeps our face smiling even she wastes hours of time in make-ups.

They ask series of questions like “How do you like my dress?”

“How do I look today?”

“Am I looking fat?”

Test Situation #1

She says : “Oh., My grand ma got sick. Will you come at evening and drop me in her place? I want to take care of her today!”

Kart’s Insight: It is not about you to pickup and drop her in grand ma’s place. It is really about, If you concern about her family members or not.

How to Pass?:  Buy some fruits & something that may be useful for her grandma.

Test Situation #2

She says: “You know? This is the same place that John(her ex) was proposed me”

Kart’s Insight: She may be testing you that, If you are in doubt with her and her ex. Or, She may just want to see your facial expression.

How to Pass?: You need be get serious instantly & move away from that place. I am sure, She will come to you and ask sorry.

Test Situation #3

She says: Am I looking fat?

Kart’s Insight: She wants to know if you concern about her slightly “Over Weighted” body or not?  She may be trying to workout

How to Pass?: “Yes” is the truth. She really want an answer “No” from you. But you have to say Yes + No like below.,  “I think your workouts are making you slim & sexy.. If you keep doing those workouts then you will become a model within a month” .. This is absolutely a positive and encouraging answer.

Post your test situations and her expressions. I will help you to figure out

This is a kick ass self motivative post, which will increase your self confidence 200% more at end of reading.

Everyone has  a dream superhero character about themselves.

For me, I think myself as a “Steve Stiffler”  & sometimes “Bad Boy”. I  approach girls and flirt with them. I usually speak like a very nice guy. Girls like  a guy, Who speak polite and little funny. You dont want to be a “Ace Ventura” to make fun. Just try with what is originally coming for you.

Who are you actually?

• Sensitive?
• Emotional?
• Predictable?
• Serious Guy?

Emm… Yes they are good faces. I dont want you to hide your originality. I just want you to find the coolest guy inside you. Take him out and send him infront of girls.

Do not fake yourself. Do what comes naturally for you. Girls dont want you to dance, sing, fight or have a six pack. All they are expecting from a guy is, A smile with confidence & frank words with little truth.

Guy infront of you:

Sometimes you get jealous about some guy, He usually be speaking with more than 2 girls at same time. Girls love him and always flirt with him. He date with hot and cute girls all the time.

Your Superhero:

Think yourself as a superhero. Whom it would be?  JamesBond, Will Smith, Serminator, Wolverine, Batman, Superman, Captain America …

Well, Practically we can not fly and sleep with all women.

Actually you do not need to be a superhero to get a girl friend. Actually thinking yourself as a superhero is a kind of lame thing.

Lets figure out the coolest guy inside you.

Dress:
Make your own style or atleast stick with one dressing style. I used to wear lots of cargo shirts and cotton pants.

Face:
Let other know that, You can smile.

Eyes:
Do not keep it like someone who escaped from prison.

Just start looking into her eyes and say “Hi.. How are you doing?” with a little smile.

Also remember that, Girls are also most like you, They are also interested to flirt and share with opposite sex.