How to Get a Girl Friend?

How to get a girl you like most?

So, You like to get a girl, who is your class mate, colleague, girl at next door, a party chick or some one? You are a shy guy to start with girls? Keep this in your mind always “Girls aren’t aliens to fear about”. Kick your foolish shyness and fear at first.

Be a Man:
Do not degrade yourself with your inferior things. Look at the couples you see at beach, park & every where else.. If he can get a girl then why not you?

First Meet/Date/Conversation?
Buddy, You need to make her get relaxed. So, Do not stand in front of her like an escaped prisoner with rolling eyes. First relax yourself and understand the environment then start, Just say good day wishes, smile and move forward the conversation with interesting topics. There is a magic lie which always attracts a girl. Tell her that “You looks really nice. This dress perfectly suits you” end this line with a nice smile. This is your first trap.

What is your personality?
Do you able to describe about yourself with couple of lines? Do not try to makeup some fake characters into your personality. Just “Be Yourself”

Are you a Jerk or Nice guy?
Most of the girls feel nice guys are such boring personalities. Don’t be a 100% funny guy always. It will create a joker impression about you instead of attractiveness.

Your conversations with a girl:
when a girl talk about something she like, an incident, a sad moment, her last summer trip, her pets or anything else, You need to follow “Shut Up and Listen” rule. Stop commenting, Stop giving suggestions, Stop giving advices, Stop arguments when she talk. Just shut up your bad mouth and listen what she says. She don’t need a world’s greatest idea from you when she talk something emotional. All she need is a caring person who respects what she is saying.

Be REAL:
Help an old lady cross the street. Be a role model for kids to look up to. Be kind to animals. Being considerate to others, no matter the age, gender, or species, is sure to make any girl’s heart melt.

Be Talkative:
Girls like such an interesting guys who talk funny, naughty (sometimes), caring & polite. Just be social.

Know more about her:
You have to know about her most happiest/sad moments. Close friends, Family, Co-Workers, Her favorite food, her hobbies. Do not ask all of these to her like a survey guy. Just know it in different moments.

Your Thoughts:
If she say “Eminem is the only one who can rap very well. all others are pure crap!” Don’t say “yes yes.. emimen is BEST.. I like him”. Just say what you think really in polite way, This would be better, “Yes Eminem is nice.. But 50cent & Dr.Dre too perform nice, You must listen <50-C song name> <Dre song name> <eminem song name> look how great all are they.. these three guys rap nice.”.

How to be an interested guy?
If she like something, then ask about her thoughts & comments about it. Let her to talk much about her favorite things. Do not let it to be a questioner session.

Learn to play at least a single musical instrument,
Learn to dance,
Have some interesting hobbies like boat riding, rock climbing,

Do not Hurt or Kid her friends:
Do not try lame jokes to kid her friends. As you are a new person to her, You need to be friendly to all of her friends too.

TRUST Yourself

First of all trust yourself, You can do it even millions of successful guys do. You lose nothing if she denies you. Just have a try learn the lesson “How to attract”.

  • Well I like these tips very much and can see how they would be great in getting that first girl.
  • Rob
    Richard - "just be yourself" is good advice if you are the kind of man that women tend to find attractive. If however you are not the kind of man that women tend to find attractive then it is disastrously bad advice. If women don't like you, then change. Change yourself from top to bottom if necessary (which it probably will be). The marketplace is getting more and more competitive and more and more difficult for men, so don't torpedo your chances by blithely assuming that "being yourself" is some sort of magic prescription for success. For many men it is a guarantee of failure.
  • Richard
    Great post! The keyword is "Be Yourself". I must say that is not a simple thing coz whenever you are attracted to a girl, you tend to be nervous and try hard to make her adore you. Somehow it needs lots of practise on how to control your emotions, hormones, adrenaline & much more....just be natural.

    regards
    Richard ST
  • Bill Preston
    It's funny how hard it is for some guys to get a girlfriend... and then other guys have girlfriends and just want to be single... I guess the grass is always greener... :)

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  • Vishnudev000
    what to do when i swa her(ex lover) who break up with me and marry other person and now have a child
  • Varshaparivarth
    Just Say a warm hello ! but dont try to stitch the broken past.it will be hurt us again.
  • zakir555
    Love friend
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